When you just starting to build- or should I say, “uncover” your healthy thin mentality your body may need patience as you learn what hunger feels like.
Of course you are new at this and your body is confused.
Your best tool is to stay in the present. Calmy- Am I hungry- not sure? Try a bit? Feel better? sometimes that just desire to eat IS hunger- Hunger is expressed in many ways with all of your senses Just as when you are attracted to another human- there could be many signs.
This is not weird of revolutionary. Mother Nature was going to make sure that we eat- so we survive. I used to ignore cues that I thought were not hunger. Now I know if I can’t get my mind off of food, I am indeed hungry, even if my stomach isn’t growling.
If you eat and your tastebuds are happy, happy- you were hungry- The way to lose weight with your healthy thin mentality is to DELAY eating more when that hunger stops signaling you to eat. You must pay attention to this and say- Could I be done? Could this be enough? Do I need more to calm hunger- YOU CAN DO THIS Give you self a chance!!
For 25 years, I ignored my own body and listened to the the “expert of the day” to decide what to eat, when to eat to and how much to eat.
Do not do this to yourself.
What seems like a simple, and harmless action– restricting calories, replacing food you love with “clean food” and ignoring hunger, is not harmless, it is destructive.
It fundamentally changes your relationship with food, eating and your body:
Why did I, (and why do you) put yourself through this?
Because we are trying so hard to do the right thing, to get healthy, to have a lean body we can proud of, to lose that baby weight, to get back into that pair of jeans, that we get desperate:
So we listen to advice that is propped up by a massive revenue machine: the diet industry.
But diet/nutrition research is flawed because researchers frequently have a corrupt agenda for the results they seek. This leads to the ever changing “magic food” of the day- a la Dr. Oz.
So your good intentions to follow smart scientists leave you, ironically, subject to bad advice. If you doubt this, read this: (It is also reprinted at end of this post)
And the vast majority of testimonies you see are not real.
Don’t swallow a testimony from a highly-paid celebrity! They are paid millions! She may have had weight loss surgery, liposuction, cool sculpting etc., and credit some diet because they are paying her millions.
So, may I “bottom line” this for you?
It is not reasonable to ignore your body’s voice to get to a healthy weight, a healthy relationship with food, and to enjoy eating.
In fact, respecting your body’s voice is the way to get there!
It is in you, buried under a layer of deep diet mentality. People, if I can get rid of mine, you can get rid of yours. Mine was so so powerful.
I created a book and workbook to guide you through this. Believe me, I am not doing this to make money off of you. This is a passion for me. I put it together to mimic how I made the transition. It is the best gift you can give yourself. I am starting to put it out on YouTube too.- I will go through it week by week. So, if you don’t want to spend money on the book- check out YouTube Diets Are Fattening. But I do think that it is helpful if you use it in conjunction with the vids, I think it would be more powerful.
I will post on Facebook, Twitter and when I have new vids up.
I am screaming this message! Below I have reprinted the article from The Washington Post that I mentioned earlier.
This study 40 years ago could have reshaped the American diet. But it was never fully published.
By Peter Whoriskey April 12
It was one of the largest, most rigorous experiments ever conducted on an important diet question: How do fatty foods affect our health? Yet it took more than 40 years — that is, until today — for a clear picture of the results to reach the public.
The fuller results appeared Tuesday in BMJ, a medical journal, featuring some never-before-published data. Collectively, the fuller results undermine the conventional wisdom regarding dietary fat that has persisted for decades and is still enshrined in influential publications such as the U.S. government’s Dietary Guidelines for Americans. But the long-belated saga of the Minnesota Coronary Experiment may also make a broader point about how science gets done: it suggests just how difficult it can be for new evidence to see the light of day when it contradicts widely held theories.
The story begins in the late 1960s and early ’70s, when researchers in Minnesota engaged thousands of institutionalized mental patients to compare the effects of two diets. One group of patients was fed a diet intended to lower blood cholesterol and reduce heart disease. It contained less saturated fat, less cholesterol and more vegetable oil. The other group was fed a more typical American diet.
Just as researchers expected, the special diet reduced blood cholesterol in patients. And while the special diet didn’t seem to have any effect on heart disease, researchers said they suspected that a benefit would have appeared if the experiment had gone on longer.
There was “a favorable trend,” they wrote, for younger patients.
Today, the principles of that special diet — less saturated fat, more vegetable oils — are recommended by the Dietary Guidelines for Americans, the government’s official diet advice book. Yet the fuller accounting of the Minnesota
data indicates that the advice is, at best, unsupported by the massive trial. In fact, it appears to show just the opposite: Patients who lowered their cholesterol, presumably because of the special diet, actually
suffered more heart-related deaths than those who did not.
The higher rate of mortality for patients on the special diet was most apparent among patients older than 64.
The new researchers, led by investigators from the National Institutes of Health and the University of North Carolina, conclude that the absence of the data over the past 40 years or so may have led to a misunderstanding of this key dietary issue.
“Incomplete publication has contributed to the overestimation of benefits and underestimation of potential risks” of the special diet, they wrote.
“Had this research been published 40 years ago, it might have changed the trajectory of diet-heart research and recommendations” said Daisy Zamora, a researcher at UNC and a lead author of the study.
The new research drew quick criticism, however, especially from experts who have been prominent in the campaign against saturated fats.
“The bottom line is that this report adds no useful new information and is irrelevant to current dietary recommendations that emphasize replacing saturated fat with polyunsaturated fat,” Walter Willett, chair of the nutrition department at Harvard University, said in a blog post from the school. “Many lines of evidence support this conclusion.”
He characterized the new analysis of the old experiment as “an interesting historical footnote.” ***
[Related: The rapidly evolving science on dietary fat]
The new research will agitate the debate over one of the most controversial questions in all of nutrition: Does the consumption of saturated fats —the ones characteristic of meat and dairy products — contribute to heart disease?
It is, without doubt, an important question. Heart disease is the leading cause of mortality in the United States, and Americans eat a lot of red meat and dairy foods.
The federal government has long blamed saturated fats for health troubles, and it continues — through the Dietary Guidelines for Americans — to recommend that people limit their intake.
Indeed, the Dietary Guidelines continue to embrace the principles advocated by the Minnesota researchers from 40 years ago. The book advises Americans to limit their intake of saturated fats and to replace them at least in part with oils, just as the Minnesota experimenters did 40 years ago. More specifically, it advises Americans to consume about five teaspoons (27 grams) of oils per day, mentioning canola, corn, olive, peanut, safflower, soybean and sunflower oils.
“Oils should replace solid fats rather than being added to the diet,” it advises.
But the idea that spurning saturated fat will, by itself, make people healthier has never been fully proved, and in recent years repeated clinical trials and large-scale observational studies have produced evidence to the contrary. Whether cutting saturated fats out of your diet will make you healthier depends, of course, on what you replace them with.
“What this research implies is that there is not enough evidence to draw strong conclusions about the health effects of vegetable oils” Christopher Ramsden, a medical investigator at NIH and a lead author of the study, said in an interview. While urging caution in drawing conclusions about the new analysis, he said the research suggested
saturated fats “may not be as bad as originally thought.”
Ramsden and colleagues discovered the missing data during their research examining the potentially harmful effects of linoleic acid — a key constituent of most vegetable oils — on human health. Preliminary research suggests a link between linoleic acid and diseases such as chronic pain, Ramsden said, and humans have been consuming it in larger quantities than their bodies may be prepared for. Before the advent of agriculture, humans got 2 to 3 percent of their calories from linoleic acid, according to the new paper; today most Americans, awash in cooking oils and oils added to snack foods, get much more.
It’s not exactly clear why the full set of data from the Minnesota experiment was never published.
As research efforts on diets go, the study was rigorous. Funded by the U.S. Public Health Service and the National Heart Institute, it involved more than 9,000 patients who were randomly assigned to one of the two diets. Detailed measurements of blood cholesterol and other indexes of health were recorded.
Willett, the Harvard nutritionist, faulted the experiment because many of the patients were on the special diets for relatively brief periods – many were being released from the mental institutions. But about a quarter of the patients remained on the diet for a year or longer, and why such an apparently well-done study received so little fanfare is mystifying to some.
Your daily policy cheat sheet from Wonkblog.
The results of the study were never touted by the investigators. Partial results were presented at an American Heart Association conference in 1975, and it wasn’t until 1989 that some of the results were published, appearing in a medical journal known as Arteriosclerosis.
The lead investigators of the trial, noted scientists Ancel Keys and Ivan Frantz, are deceased.
Steven Broste, now a retired biostatistician, was then a student at the University of Minnesota and used the full set of data for his master’s thesis in 1981. He interacted with the researchers. Part of the problem, Broste suggested in an interview, may have been limits on statistical methods at the time. Computer software for statistics wasn’t as readily available as it is today. So, at the time of the study, it wasn’t as easy to know how significant the data was. Broste completed his thesis several years after the last patients had left the trial, but it was not published in a journal.
Broste also suggested that at least part of the reason for the incomplete publication of the data might have been human nature. The Minnesota investigators had a theory that they believed in — that reducing blood cholesterol would make people healthier. Indeed, the idea was widespread and would soon be adopted by the federal government in the first dietary recommendations. So when the data they collected from the mental patients conflicted with this theory, the scientists may have been reluctant to believe what their experiment had turned up.
“The results flew in the face of what people believed at the time,” said Broste. “Everyone thought cholesterol was the culprit. This theory was so widely held and so firmly believed — and then it wasn’t borne out by the data. The question then became: Was it a bad theory? Or was it bad data? … My perception was they were hung up trying to understand the results.”
Peter Whoriskey is a staff writer for The Washington Post handling projects in business, healthcare and health. You can email him at firstname.lastname@example.org. ! Follow @PeterWhoriskey
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Bring this analogy to mind whenever you are eating without hunger.
Imagine it is raining outside and then picture yourself standing there, with a hose, watering your flowers. Doesn’t that seem ridiculous?
It is just as ridiculous to eat without hunger as it is to water flowers in the rain.
But over and over again, we have been told to ignore the “weather,” (your hunger, your lack of hunger) and water your flowers (eat) based on some schedule instead of your actual needs.
I know, I know, you think you don’t know your needs. Stop.
When you start paying attention to the weather- (again, your hunger,) you will start to notice it. Remember, you are used to ignoring your body. You keep your head down and eat because some celebrity told you to, or not to, and you eat what you eat because it is the “healthy, magic” food of the year.
But your amazingly resilient body is just waiting for you to start listening again. You will do return to your ideal weight doing things such as:
NO food rules, no deprivation, no struggle.
Hungry? Eat. What do you eat?
Use your common sense and eat food that makes you feel good. If you love spicy food but it makes you feel sick, do you eat it? Duh! No. If you eat chocolate and it makes your pms go away should you eat it when you are hungry for it? Yes. If you drink milk and it upsets your stomach should you drink it? No! If you love bread pudding but you feel tired and sleepy after you eat it should you eat it? Duh!!! NO. If you eat a kale salad with salmon and you feel great for hours afterwards should you eat it? Well, what do you think?
People, use your common sensed and stop paying for food advice.
Not hungry? Stop watering your flowers in the rain.
Eating really healthful foods, when you are hungry and crave them is great.
But I hear a lot of people express how “healthfully” they eat without any consideration of when and how much of that healthful food they eat. It is as if they believe that the more healthful food you eat, the healthier they will be.
But that is not true.
Eating an organic avocado when you are not hungry is not healthful.
Eating an organic avocado when you are hungry and crave it, is.
That difference may not seem enormous to you, but it is. In the first example, eating something “healthful” is a higher priority than listening to your body to know if your body needs food.
And if your body doesn’t need food, then eating, not matter what it is, is not in harmony with your hunger. And that disrespect of your body’s voice is not the way to build a healthy Thin Mentality that will bring you to your ideal weight, and a peaceful and stress-free relationship with eating and your body.
And there is some research out there that points to the value of giving your body a break from eating. For example, instead of eating a lot of small meals, eating less often. Interestingly, my healthy thin mentality has brought me to this kind of eating. I go for longer periods of time without eating than I did when I was a dieter. But please understand this very very important point: this behavior is in complete harmony with my own unique hunger rhythms. Whatever your unique hunger patterns dictate, respect them, whether your hunger demands that you eat less or more frequently.
As always, the moral of the story is to respect your body’s voice and these principles:
Oh yes, fun matters.
If you have dieted for years and years, of course you have completely lost touch with your hunger signals.
Not only that, once you start eating, you probably don’t know when you have had enough.
The first stage of building your healthy thin mentality is to do a little research on yourself.
Take notice of how much food you eat, and how it makes you feel not only right away, but 20 minutes later. If you eat fast (as I do) you may need to learn stop eating when you still think you could eat more because you know, from experience, that if you give your body and brain a chance to connect, your brain will get the signal that you have had enough.
For example, when I first started eating with a healthy thin mentality, I purposefully ate a bit slower until I learned approximately how much food I usually needed to satisfy hunger. This does NOT mean that I ate out of routine or in an amount that was just a habit.
It means that as I ditched my diet mentality, I paid very close attention to my eating and my hunger and satiety. This is normal, healthy “getting to know yourself” kind of learning. We should have all done this when we were younger, but, especially as teenage girls, many of us (most??) were taught to eat according to some plan or prescribed amount of food instead of learning about our own specific unique hunger patterns and taking care of them.
But it isn’t too late!!
Learn from your eating experiences. For example, I know that I rarely finish an entire restaurant size hamburger. So, I usually cut it in half right from the start so it is nicer to take home. But, if I am particularly hungry that day, no problem, no guilt, I would definitely eat it. It is just, 13 years into my healthy thin mentality, I know myself. So I can plan ahead a bit, without being caught eating out of routine.
You can get here too. Again, your first “job” with your thin mentality is to re-acquaint yourself with your unique hunger patterns. We are all different so our hunger will be different too. Our food requirements will differ too. Don’t let others’ choices determine yours.
Stay in touch with YOU. You are the only one who can do this, right? So if you don’t, then your unappreciated body will go to waste…